I wish I could get in shape. I wish I could take a vacation. I wish I could be happier. I wish I had time to read more. I wish I could eat healthier. I wish, I wish, I wish.
We hear this often, don’t we?
I’m guilty of this too.
I wish I had more time…but to do what? If you have 100 priorities to get done in 1 week, sure, you may need more time (unless you can hire some good minions to do all the things you want). But realistically, you have the time to accomplish the priorities you set, or the activities you want to accomplish. Your issues may be with conflicting priorities and in the belief that they are all the same weight of importance, rather than time itself. In the last few months, I’ve consciously practiced setting my main priorities for the week, and not let other ones in if I can’t complete my main ones. To date, I’m at a 90% success completion rate for those priorities. And that’s just one example for the “I wish I had more time” argument.
“I Will” Can Be More Powerful Than “I Wish”
But the “I wish” versus “I will” mindset is key. And some things may always be a wish, and that’s ok (I wish I could be the General Manager of the New Jersey Devils, or the greatest sommelier the world has ever known). But honestly, that’s more of a big dream, rather than a realistic goal. And I have many goals I want to achieve way before those.
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